Be Thankful For Today Because Tomorrow Is Not Promise
Sometimes a person can imagine life differently and not realize what they really have. This behavior is common in teenage years. Parents from experience try to mold their child to be a certain way because becoming an adult , a person looks back and have regrets or want to go back home at some point in their adulthood. In the article , "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been ?" : Seduction, Space, And A Fictional Mode" by Christina Marsden Gillis focuses on a lot of her pointing out why home is significant to Oates in her story, "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?". Connie is the character that Gillis discuss in the article. Christina Gillis did an impressive piece of work on expressing the importance of Joyce Oates' thoughts of there is no place like home and nobody like family and how these two matters are taken for granted and it gives the readers something to think about.
Christina Gillis states that "the domestic space, the state of childhood associated with the home, and of course, the individual consciousness (Gillis)." This perspective leads back to where and what is most important to a child. A child starts off as a baby recognizing faces and setting. In Oates’ story, Connie does not want to attend a barbeque with her family, she told her parents she would rather stay and have some "me" time. She decided that she wanted some time alone to daydream and relaxed. However, that is not the case. Gillis points out how Oates illustrate the invasion of the stranger name, Arnold Friend. It is recognized by Christina Gillis that Joyce Oates demonstrates a contradiction in home being a safe haven for a person. Home should be a person place of peace and comfort.
Another example Gillis points out that shows ungratefulness is the tools that Connie’s mother try to provide her. Christina Gillis acknowledged the reasoning, “The mother who had once been pretty (“but now her looks were gone and that...